Poor me...

I'm having a poor me moment. As you are a captive audience I shall rant and vent at you! Maybe you can help put it into perspective...  

And if you are one of my close friends, you probably don't want to read any further...

I know that your friendships change when you have a baby. Especially when you parent differently to others. But I hadn't realised that having baby number 2 would mean the same thing would happen again.

It seems that once you have your second, there is a new exclusivity which negates the previous camaraderie. A new members only club, if you will. The mother with one child can no longer bitch complain about lack of sleep etc as it's never as hard with one as with two. Any mention of a rough day is met with rolled eyes... Even those who are just pregnant are instant members of the club!

Of course this could all be in my head and brought on by the lack of hormones or too much (LOL) sleep but sometimes I feel like being the mother of one means I am second rate.

I guess I should get used to it.